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Ove žene su zahvalne do neba za svaki kilogram koji dobiju

Ove žene su zahvalne do neba za svaki kilogram koji dobiju
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Radi se o iskustvima mladih žena koje je opsesija mršavošću zamalo stajala život. Poručuju ljudima da ne slijede nametnute, nezdrave standarde, već da budu svoji...

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I dok su ljudi širom svijeta opsjednuti skidanjem kilograma, ove žene zahvalne su, kažu, Bogu za svaki gram koji se zadrži na njihovim tijelima. I one su u svojoj prošlosti stalno pokušavale biti sve mršavije sve dok se to nije otelo kontroli i zaprijetilo njihovom zdravlju, ali i životima.

Naučile su voljeti svoja tijela  i polako se vraćaju u normalu. Pozivaju ljude da sami sebe prihvate takvima kakvi jesu i da ne pokušavaju biti nešto što im društvo uporno nameće.

Ovo su njihova iskustva:

Hayley Harris

Priznala je da se počela izgladnjivati kako bi se što više približila ostvarenju onoga što je mislila da je idealan izgled, željela je biti vrlo tanka kao modeli u magazinima. Koliko je bila u krivu shvatila je dok se u bolnici liječila od poremećaja prehrane. Otvorila je profil na Instagramu i iskreno progovorila o ovom problemu. Kaže kako joj je potpora njezinih sljedbenika pomogla da se othrva svojoj bolesti. Sada je vrlo aktivna u kampanjama koje se bore protiv javnog idealiziranja mršavosti.  

Megan Jayne Crabbe

 

Do you wanna know the truth about gaining weight? Because I've done a whole lot of it. I used to believe that my life would end over a couple of extra pounds on the scale. I used to believe that losing weight was the most important thing in the world. I used to believe that there was no such thing as going too far, getting too thin, losing too much. Then I nearly lost my life. There were only two options left: gain weight, or die. So I gained weight. More and more. Anorexia morphed into binge eating disorder and within a year I'd gone from 65lbs lying on my death bed to 180lbs, right back to self loathing and wanting to lose weight more than anything in the world. I lost and gained hundreds of pounds over the years. I'd clawed my way back from the edge and still I believed that happiness could be found in the dropping numbers on a bathroom scale. Until I realised that no weight loss had ever made me happy. No amount of disappeared pounds had made me stop hating my body. And chasing thinness had made me lose much more than weight - I'd lost myself. Now I know that no matter how much extra jiggle might come along, nothing important about me will have changed. I'll still have the same heart, the same mind, the same passion, the same love. The scale will never be able to tell me anything about myself that truly matters. It doesn't have the power to define me - only I do. And I refuse to keep chasing that empty promise of happiness granted through restriction and self hatred. I'll take my happiness right now. We are all so worthy of it, exactly as we are. Don't be afraid of gaining weight, my love. There's a whole life for you to gain when you stop letting those numbers dictate your worth. 💜💙💚🌈🌞

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Ona je težila svega 27 kilograma kada je imala 13 godina. Koliko god bila mršava, stalno si je djelovala previše debelo. Odbijala je hranu sve dok to nije postao jako ozbiljan rizik za njezin mladi život. Danas kaže kako ne postoji žena koja nije lijepa - sve je zapravo u našim glavama. I u pravu je, ljepota ili ružoća samo mogu biti karakterne osobine, nikako ne fizički izgled. Svaki čovijek neiskvarene naravi je lijep na neki svoj način.

Sarah Ramadan

 

2014 -> 2016 💜 It's nice to look back sometimes, to remember the seeds that started this garden, and all the colours that give you warmth. I remember being told once by a doctor in a treatment centre that there was no such thing as a full recovery. He said that I would just have to learn to "live with it" In translation, he suggested I had to compromise with life and death. I had to accept the presence of disorder, dismantle my growth at the hand of mediocrity. There was a line drawn in my focus, and extending beyond this mark was a life I always wanted. But like a craving to food, these dreams were suppressed the limits I learned. It took 3 more years after leaving that hospital to discover that compromise would never work. The odds would shift in one hand or the other, and in 2014, mediocrity nearly left me out of the picture. My heart and various major organs were beginning to fail. I was 68 pounds. The disorder was winning, and in turn, I was dying. A break through moment happened one evening after returning from the hospital. I remembered a moment of my childhood, when I was about 4 years old. I had long hair and refused to wear anything but gowns and tiaras. I ate birthday cake for breakfast, and Halloween Candy was my favourite 'season' of all. When a song came on the radio, I would sing over the lyrics as if the music was made for me and my musing. I would smile at my own reflection, counting the dimples on my face as prerequisite kindergarden work. And I had big cheeks too! Nice full rosy cheeks that were pinch-able and perfect. So perfect, that I wished for nothing more. So perfect, that I refuse to wish her away. Life cannot compromise with death, the same way strength cannot compromise with defeat. I have learned this through both pain and practice. Fighting is not easy when the fight is for a cause; I know no greater reason than to fight for love. For in love, I grow. #TransformationTuesday #VeniVidiVici #FightForGrowth

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Ove fotografije snimljene su u razmaku od dvije godine, a razlika u kilaži tada i sada je 20 kilograma. Sarah je sa 18 godina bolovala od depresije, a to ju je odvelo u anoreksiju. Danas se aktivno bavi bodybuildingom, vrlo je sretna i zadovoljna svojim izgledom.  

Margherita Barbieri

 

Because how could I resist? #recovery #anorexiarecovery #strongnotskinny #warrior

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Radila kao plesačica, ali nakon što nije prošla nekoliko audicija, zaključila je kako joj se to dogodila jer nije dovoljno mršava za scenu. Počela se je doslovce izgladnjivati sve dok se nije pretvorila u kost i kožu - pala je na svega 25 kilograma. Srećom, izvukla se iz tog stanja i shvatila kako je njezino zdravlje važnije od svega. Prihvatila je svoje tijelo i vrlo je zadovoljna je što je ponovno nabacila kilograme. 

Aroosha Nekonam

Danas je uspješna fitness blogerica i osobna trenerica. Ali, nije uvijek bilo tako. Bila je toliko mršava da se je dovela do ruba smrti. Odbijala je hranu iako je izgledala kao kostur. Sve je počelo nakon završetka fakulteta kada je odlučila skinuti nekoliko kilograma, no to se otelo kontroli.  

Connie Inglis

 

A lot of people have asking me how I did it. How I recovered so fast... the truth is, I didn't. An eating disorder is deceptive and horrible. It lures you in and makes you believe that you'd be nothing without it, you wouldn't survive without it. I used to believe my ed was my best friend but all it ever wanted to do was kill me. In the picture on the left I was 13 and had already been struggling for a long time. 💜 There are 8 years between these photos and in that time I have weight restored and relapsed countless times. I have tormented myself mentally and physically. I told myself I was horrible and unworthy of happiness. I have hated my body. I have starved it, I have hurt it, I have left unmeasurable damage. THIS IS NOT MY LIFE ANYMORE!! After 10 years I finally decided I loved my family and friends more than my illness. I decided that I wasn't to blame for everything that had happened. I decided that I deserved to be happy!!! So I finally let go... 💜 If your still struggling I am with you every step of the way. If you've been going through this for lifetimes and feel useless when you see others getting better, I completely understand. If you feel like your Ed is still taking care of you, I understand but I promise there are better things out there!!! If your not taken seriously because you don't fit into the typical anorexia box, your struggles are worthy and you deserve to be helped!!! If your turned away because of you weight, skin colour or gender, FIGHT LIKE HELL!! You deserve to be heard!!! 💜 I'm not telling you this for sympathy or to diminish anyone's struggles!! Everyone's struggles are valid!! But I want you to know that it is possible!! Yes I still have bad days. I still struggle but I'm stronger now and know that I deserve to be happy! Keep going, it's going to be the hardest thing you ever do but it's so worth it! Fight like hell and I'll be fighting with you!! #positivebeatsperfect

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Oboljela je od anoreksije kao tinejdžerica, a njezina agonija traje čak deset godina. Ponekad uspijeva dobiti na težini, ali ponekad se vraća starim navikama - bori se sama sa sobom. To je, kaže, bio glavni razlog zašto je otvorila profil na Instagramu. Tamo joj nepoznati ljudi daju podršku. Pomažu joj da se drži svoje odluke i vrati tjelesnu težinu u normalu.

Erika The Tiger

I ova djevojka je bolovala od anoreksije, ali i od bulimije. Imala je svega 16 godina kada je sve to počelo. Svaki put kada se pogledala u ogledalo, izgledala si je predebelo i jednostavno je prestajala jesti. Ali, nakon nekog vremena se dogodio preokret u njezinoj glavi. Počela je mrziti to što je toliko tanka i to je pokušavala prikriti odjećom. Malo po malo je vraćala kilograme. Danas se bavi sportom, više se ne srami svojeg tijela, udala se i vrlo je sretna.

 

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